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2010-09-19 12-06-56

i harbor an overwhelming sense of guilt, for having broken up with my gf of 9 years. she wanted , marriage. i wasn't ready. 9 months ago we decided to "take a break." she went back to her hometown, got involved with someone, and when she returned (at which point i thought we were going to talk about our situation) she had already given up on us, and told me she'd moved on with someone else. we were both heartbroken. hers was more gradual, as she realized over weeks and months that i wasn't going to going to commit. i was devastated, knowing that it took her only a few weeks to jump into bed with some we were both true to eachother during our time together. we're both mature adults. never fought, lied, cheated. none of that shit. we lived a quiet, married-like life. but... anyway... i'm rambling. so, i'm still not ready for marriage and . i'm 29. loving life. having a great adventure. she's 28. struggling. the relationship she got involved in seems to be falling apart. we still talk, as friends (I've also become involved with someone new), and she tells me all she wants is to find someone to live her life with. she doesn't want to date, play around, waste time. she wants a good man ("like me"). and i can't help but feel guilty. i made the decision for ME. I *had* to. I wasn't head over heels. I didn't want to feel like i was settling. and the woman i'm with now is incredible. but so was my ex. ugh. that's all i guess. i guess i'm just venting. no clean answers. just tragic realities.
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2010-10-05 23-54-27

so she's available then?
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    2010-10-30 3-26-40-

    soon. i guess. it sounds like the relationship she started when (before) we broke up is now devolving.
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    2011-02-02 12-08-56

    thought she met him after the b-u
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    2011-02-03 16-45-38

    not really after. we weren't officially broken up yet. we were taking a short break. they met. they fucked. she gave up on us. she invested herself in him. she came "home" (to me). we broke up on day 2 of her being home. we continued to live together for another month. then she finally left. 6 months ago. haven't seen her since.
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    2011-12-21 14-28-29

    got any pics of her?
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    it was a planned break, x weeks. that's all. i was loyal during that time. i had opportunities. i expected her to be loyal to. i didn't care if she flirted, or even fucked. i just wanted her to come home at the end open to discussion, open to working things out. but she couldn't. she felt that the excess time had "poisoned" our relationship. i can totally see where her emotions were coming from. but it's really like i forced the whole thing. i led her to abandon ship. maybe that's what i wanted. they say "nice guys can't break up with girls." i think that had something to do with the whole thing.
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    2015-08-16 6-22-02-

    Why do you think a break solves anything? How does abandoning the relationship fix the relationship? It's not NICE! It is PUSSY!!! That is the absolute worst. I am too afraid to break up with you, so I will emotionally torment you with not knowing where things stand until you break up with me. PUSSY MOVE
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