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norstrom

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2010-09-19 12-40-34

I lost him cause I didnt have my shit together. I had nothing to offer in a relationship, much less a marriage. Unemployed for years, living with my parents and was embarrassed and therefor didnt let him fully into my life. I kept my distance cause I was embarrassed of my life. So he found someone who had something to offer and was in that same place. He's now getting married, though I cant believe this b/c as much as he'd say he wanted to be married, he wasnt ready. I believe he rushed into it. Yes, he was ready to let someone in his life, but not ready for that kind of commitment to someone yet. Seeing that person everyday, living together, sharing everything and having to check in. I dont see it workingout for him. He doesnt know what real commitment is...but he's getting married nonetheless. Part of me thinks he may as well...Im still not on my feet. I feel like I cant be in a relationship till I have a full-time job and am on my own. I now have a part-time job and it's giving me leads to something stable and permanent, which in turn will allow me the chance to move out. But I've lost him now and I cant believe it. I thought I would always be the he wanted, but someone else flew in with her shit together, knoew exactly what she wanted, let him in her life, and took my place. Im devestated, but I try to console myself by saying im still not in that place, I still wouldnt have let him in, and he needs to live his life. Is it naive and crazy of me to think that maybe when I finally get to that place, he'll be there for me again? That this marriage of his will be a learning experience for him, and maybe we'll find eachother again?
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2010-09-23 20-35-18

u lost him because you bored the fuck ouuta him
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  • jing

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    2010-10-08 7-17-32-

    Hardly. Quite the opposite. He told me I wasnt grounded, I think he even thought I may never hold down a real job. I was always getting and quitting jobs, i dont blame him for finally moving on from me.
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    2010-10-08 11-51-06

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    2010-10-16 5-54-14-

    ^ Double Eye-or-knee with a twist of lemon.
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  • surrett

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    2010-10-16 16-18-41

    Get your shit together for yourself and the next
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    Fulvia

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    2010-11-25 17-57-21

    There'll never be anyone else like him. I want him back so badly I cry about it a lot.
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    2011-01-08 11-45-37

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    2011-05-17 15-41-58

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  • Idelle

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    2011-09-19 14-09-51

    Yes, but there will be others. Now is now. You have a narrative about "why" he left which is probably not accurate. Heartbreak is like that. There will be another. He'll be different, but you'll love him. Have your shit together by then.
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    Why do you think he left? he finally moved on from me?
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